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30 MarWhat to Take With You on Your Date

Planning for a date isn’t as simple as just grabbing your wallet and heading out the door. There are several things you want to make sure you have just in case you need them. It’s better to have everything and not need it than it is to need something and not have it.

Cell Phone

This is the most important accessory you can carry with you on a date, especially if you are dating someone you haven’t been out with a lot. The cell phone should be fully charged. This can become your lifeline if something goes awry.

Extra Clothing

Even if you don’t plan on staying out overnight, having another set of clothes is just good sense. If you spill something, or find you are dressed inappropriately for the date you can easily change. And if the date does turn in to an overnight affair, you won’t have to wear the same clothing the next day. It’s a good idea to also pack toiletries in this event so that you have everything you need to clean up in the morning. If you eat a meal on the date that is overly pungent you will have what you need to brush your teeth, and if you go dancing you will have deodorant to freshen up.


Other than the essentials, if you are a man picking up a lady for the first date, you should have some sort of small gift to offer her. This doesn’t have to be anything expensive or fancy, just a small token of your appreciation. This will make a great impression and follows traditional dating rules. Chocolates, tea, and flowers are all good ideas.

29 JanFeeling Sexy on Your Date

Feeling sexy is important if you want to set the right mood for your date. Even if you aren’t planning on going any further than just a date, if you don’t feel sexy it will come across in your body language. There are several things you can do to help amp up this feeling without coming across as being too desperate.
Start With Undergarments
The sexiest thing you can do before a date is to wear sexy garments under your outfit. For a woman, the feeling of lace panties or a thong can really help you feel sexy. Even if you don’t have the intent of sharing this, it can be a great little secret that keeps you feeling ardent.
Hair and Nails
Another way to keep you feeling passionate is to treat yourself to a good manicure and hairstyle before the date. Having your hair and nails done will only take a few hours, and you don’t have to do it on the day of the date. Have this done the day before to maximize your time. Not only will you feel fierier, your date will appreciate the extra time you put in to your appearance.
Remember Your Lips
Using a good quality lip gloss or lip slick will automatically amp up your sex appeal. A sexy lip pout will bring attention to your mouth, which will rev up your date. You will also be able to feel the slickness which will bring your attention to a sexy area of your body.
Spice It Up
To really get the date off with a bang, watch some naughty videos, if you fancy some good real life amateur action then take a look at some swingers videos, they should certainly help to get you and your partner in a sexy mood.

17 NovHow to Prepare For Your Date

Preparing for a date is very important. If you aren’t prepared you won’t be able to make a good impression. Leaving your date with a negative impression will almost always ensure you won’t be going on another one with that person. Here are the basics you should prepare yourself with.

Know Where You’re Going

If you are the one planning the date, have a very clear plan. Just winging it is never a good idea. It’s also a good idea to have a back up plan. This way if you had planned on going to a movie that ends up being sold out, you have another option without just aimlessly driving around. If you aren’t the one planning the date, it’s a good idea to know what type of events are planned. This way you don’t end up wearing a hree piece suit or cocktail dress to a night club. If your date is planning on surprising you, at least find out what kind of attire is appropriate.

Have an Exit Strategy

Even the perfect person can end up on a bad date. Having an exit plan is a good idea for everyone. Make sure you take a cell phone, and have enough money for cab fare if you didn’t drive. This way you can fake an emergency if you need to get out and not worry about how you are going to get home.

Know What to Bring

If you’ve been dating for a while, it’s a good idea to have an overnight bag tucked away in your car somewhere. That way if things get heated, you will have everything you need for an impromptu overnight stay. Make sure you have all your bases covered when you pack this.